Valerie @enum@chaos.social

Wer hat sich das eigentlich ausgedacht, dass Stromversorgung mit USB-Netzteilen anders ausgehandelt wird als mit Hostgeräten?
Als Folge davon gibt's jetzt Geräte, die sich nur am Computer aufladen lassen, aber nicht am Powerbrick 🙄

Was für günstige und leise Hardware will mensch denn benutzen um sich ein NAS zu bauen?

jos sinulla on 2 sukupuolta, onko se 1 sukukokonainen?

Gibt's grad irgendwelche brauchbaren Matrix-Rocketchat-Bridges?

Was gibt es denn so an nicen kyrillischen Keyboard Layouts, die eins lernen will?

Was ausscheidet:
- Gentoo, weil zu wenig Rechenleistung dafür
- NixOS, weil es mir den Verstand raubt
- Archlinux, weil der ZFS-Support nicht vorhanden bis unzumutbar ist
- Debian weil nein

Empfehlt mir pls ne Linux-Distro mit gutem ZFS-Support und wenig Schmerzen und halbwegs aktuellen Paketen.

bi-beverage: a person who drinks coffee AND tea

In practice, for most matters, you can just treat me like a binary trans girl. I use the same pronouns (she/her). I take the same hormone therapy (E2+P4+Bica). I'm a girlfriend, a daughter, gimme all the feminine words.

I'm still also a boy though. A gender-nonconforming boy, who wears make-up, leggings and shoulder-free tops. A boy who prefers she/her pronouns over anything.
But if you use that knowledge to exclude me from female spaces, you deserve to bath in horse shit.

But the more things I have that cis people can see as 'evidence' for my femaleness, the less I need to care. The more I can live out the feminine boy in me.

Ceterum censeo that cis people are shit, and we shouldn't need 'evidence' for our genders!

This also has a bit to do with privilege. Nowadays I have a passport with a correct gender marker and correct names on it. Also, I have visible boobs. Both of these make it easier to pass as female whenever it is important to me.

Before that, being perceived as somehow male caused a whole lot of dysphoria to me. So, identifying as bigender was absolutely not an option back then. Instead, I id'd as agender, then neutrois, then femby, then binary girl. Most importantly: not male!

So, what does it mean when I say I am bigender? #NonBinaryDay

It means I have two genders. In my case that's 'girl' and 'femboy'. Or 'girl' and 'twink'. Or 'girl' and 'disaster'.

Most of the time I do not really care if I'm perceived as a girl, or just a very feminine boy.