There are some people in Debian who insist on misgendering and deadnaming trans- or non-binary people. There are others who get upset if the first group is criticized or told to stop. All of these haters are part of why I don't want to be in the Debian project anymore.
There are also people in Debian who are kind, wise, and suppotive to a degree that is incredible. Unfortunately, it's not enough to undo the damage the haters do.
I'm not going back until the haters are gone.
@liw I'm not letting the haters destroy the community that was an important support for my transition during these last 15 years. I'm working on articles about these power dynamics to make it easier to understand (although for those willing to LMGTFO there are already loads out there if one would only search)
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