If you meet a polycule for the first time, please be polite and keep your stereotypes to yourself. Nobody wants to get asked who is the top, the bottom, the up, the down, the charm or the strange in the relationship.
@rixx It's generally a good advice.
When you encounter a homosexual couple you presumably don't ask them about their sex-life, who plays which role in their relationship etc.
But when you aren't familiar with a relationship model (e.g. Poly, Homosexual), now it's important who is the man in the relationship, who is more dominant during sex and so on?
@frommMoritz Note to self: no jokes on social media after 9pm.
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