If you meet a polycule for the first time, please be polite and keep your stereotypes to yourself. Nobody wants to get asked who is the top, the bottom, the up, the down, the charm or the strange in the relationship.
@rixx does this not imply that everyone wants to be asked if they are Quark
@maffsie No. It implies that it is absolutely rude to just ask people about their elemental state. Same goes of course for their spin, charge and mass.
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